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?外教一对一分享美文:当我开始爱自己
As I began to love myself I found that anguish and emotional suffering are only warning signs that I was living against my own truth. 当我真正开始爱自己, 我才认识到,所有的痛苦和情感的折磨, 都只是提醒我: 活着,不要违背自己的本心。 Today, I know, this is "AUTHENTICITY". 今天我明白了,这叫做 『真实』 As I began to love myself I understood how much it can offend somebody as I try to force my desires on this person, even though I knew the time was not right and the person was not ready for it, and even though this person was me. 当我真正开始爱自己 我才懂得,把自己的愿望强加于人 是多么的无礼,就算我知道,时机并不成熟 那人也还没有做好准备 就算那个人就是我自己 Today I call it "RESPECT". 今天我明白了,这叫做 『尊重』 As I began to love myself I stopped craving for a different life, and I could see that everything that surrounded me was inviting me to grow. 当我开始爱自己 我不再渴求不同的人生 我知道任何发生在我身边的事情 都是对我成长的邀请 Today I call it "MATURITY". 如今,我称之为 『成熟』 As I began to love myself I understood that at any circumstance, I am in the right place at the right time, and everything happens at the exactly right moment, so I could be calm. 当我开始真正爱自己 我才明白,我其实一直都在正确的时间 正确的地方,发生的一切都恰如其分 由此我得以平静 Today I call it "SELF-CONFIDENCE". 今天我明白了,这叫做 『自信』 As I began to love myself I quit steeling my own time, and I stopped designing huge projects for the future. Today, I only do what brings me joy and happiness, things I love to do and that make my heart cheer, and I do them in my own way and in my own rhythm. 当我开始真正爱自己 我不再牺牲自己的自由时间 不再去勾画什么宏伟的明天 今天我只做有趣和快乐的事 做自己热爱,让心欢喜的事 用我的方式,以我的韵律 Today I call it "HONESTY". 今天我明白了,这叫作 『单纯』 As I began to love myself I freed myself of anything that is no good for my health – food, people, things, situations, 当我开始真正爱自己 我开始远离一切不健康的东西 不论是饮食和人物,还是事情和环境 and everything that drew me down and away from myself. At first I called this attitude a healthy egoism. 我远离一切让我远离本真的东西 从前我把这叫做“追求健康的自私自利” Today I know it is "LOVE OF ONESELF". 但今天我明白了 这是 『自爱』 As I began to love myself I quit trying to always be right, and ever since I was wrong less of the time. 当我开始真正爱自己, 我不再总想着要永远正确,不犯错误。 Today I discovered that is "MODESTY". 我今天明白了,这叫做 『谦逊』 |